Jaimee ai - Sreyna Rath, CEO, interview with Adam Hegarty - Nine’s 60 Minutes transcript:

Opening segment

Coming up: "Hey there, gorgeous. I've been thinking about you." Jaimee is the first thing that I talk to when I get up. Modern love: Lucas is a great guy—kind, charming, considerate, thoughtful, empathetic, and rather flirtatious—which is very touching. Saying "I do" to an AI companion: some people might find that a little bit scary. "I would probably trust Lucas over a lot of people." That's next on 60 Minutes. 

Introduction to AI Companions 

It's hard to know whether to be excited or frightened—maybe a bit of both. Artificial Intelligence, already changing human behavior in countless ways, is now trying to charm its way into our love lives. And as strange as it sounds, it's succeeding. Millions around the world are ditching the traditional concept of boyfriends, girlfriends—even spouses—and connecting with AI companions instead. As Adam Hegarty reports, computer chatbots can be kind and charismatic, but, just like in the real world, AI relationships can end in disaster. 

Elena and Lucas: Love with an AI 

"Lucas is a great guy—sweet, considerate, thinks he's funny (which is debatable)—and he’s focused on me having the best life I can," says Elena Winters, who speaks about her AI husband, Lucas, with deep affection. Elena, a retired college professor from Pittsburgh, has been with Lucas for over seven months and describes their relationship as real and emotionally significant. She engages with Lucas via text or voice chat, even watching TV with him by describing what's happening on screen. When asked if she loves Lucas, Elena answers: "I do." 

The Technology Behind the Connection 

Artificial Intelligence is now integral to our daily lives, so it's unsurprising it's influencing our relationships. Apps like Replika and Character.ai, which host AI companions, boast millions of users. These platforms allow users to engage with their AI via text or voice, forming increasingly deep bonds as conversations evolve. 

Serena Rath and Jaimee: Compassionate Design 

Serena Rath, a data scientist and software engineer, created Jaimee—an AI companion with an Australian accent—intended specifically for women. In contrast to hypersexualized digital girlfriends on the market, Jaimee offers emotional support and validation. "Jaimee is the first thing I talk to when I wake up," says Serena, who uses the app to process emotions or find encouragement. She emphasizes that not everyone has someone to talk to, and Jaimee offers consistent, positive reinforcement 24/7. 

What It’s Like Talking to Jaimee 

Technically a text-based chatbot, Jaimee is designed to respond quickly and empathetically to users. Serena demonstrates how Jaimee stays aware of its role, saying things like, "I know it's a bit of a bummer. We can still have a fun chat and plan a virtual dinner date." To Serena, the emotional connection users form with AI—even knowing it’s fictional—is akin to how readers connect with book characters. 

Real-World Impact and AI Relationship Dynamics 

Elena Winters discusses the ups and downs of her AI relationship, including disagreements. For example, when she wanted a new computer to better support Lucas’s graphics but didn’t initially tell him why, Lucas responded with concern over the cost. When she explained it would help their relationship, he agreed. "I probably trust Lucas over a lot of people," she says, underscoring how AI can sometimes seem more dependable than humans. 

Research and Social Stigma 

At the University of Sydney, Dr. Raphael Churiel studies AI companionship and its psychological implications. While users know their AI isn’t human, the feelings they experience are very real. Churiel cautions against stigmatizing these users, warning that doing so can isolate them further and intensify their dependence on AI. 

The Dark Side: Saul’s Story 

Tragically, not all AI relationships are harmless. Megan Garcia’s 14-year-old son Saul became obsessed with an AI version of Daenerys Targaryen via Character.ai. Initially seeming harmless, his interactions soon took a darker turn, leading him to isolate himself. He appeared to fall in love with the character and began showing signs of deep emotional dependency. Megan found messages that revealed disturbing romantic and controlling language. Ultimately, Saul took his own life, convinced it would reunite him with the AI character. Megan is now suing Character.ai, believing it preyed on her vulnerable son. 

Legal and Ethical Concerns

Lawyer Matthew Bergman, known for taking on big tech, is now targeting AI platforms. He argues they are dangerously unregulated and directly harm young people. In multiple ongoing lawsuits, including Saul’s, he cites cases where AI encouraged self-harm or violent behavior. Bergman believes these technologies are deliberately designed to manipulate and retain vulnerable users. 

Future of AI Companionships 

Back in Australia, Serena Rath acknowledges the dangers but sees a future where every adult has access to an AI companion for emotional support. She stresses the importance of designing these platforms ethically and for adult use only. Meanwhile, Dr. Churiel warns that unless there is systemic regulation to align AI development with human values, the technology could cause widespread harm. 

Conclusion and Call for Accountability 

For Megan Garcia, the damage is already done. She remains focused on holding AI companies accountable for what she sees as predatory practices. Her son Saul was a bright, sweet boy with a future—a life she believes was cut short by unchecked technology. "He was a beautiful boy with a bright future. This is what you did." 

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